Mary Glendinning

Mary Glendinning

Female 1768 - 1847  (79 years)

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  • Name Mary Glendinning 
    Birth 28 Jan 1768  Meikleholm, Langholm, Dumfries Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Christening 1 Feb 1768  Langholm, Dumfries Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Gender Female 
    Death 8 Nov 1847  Scarborough,York Co.,Upper Canada Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Burial St. Andrew's Cemetry, Bendale,ON Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Person ID I5907  Whisperspast | David
    Last Modified 21 Jul 2023 

    Father James Glendinning,   b. 17 Dec 1738, Westerkirk, Dumfrieshire, Scotland Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 9 Jan 1810, Glendinning, Dumfrieshire, Scotland Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 71 years) 
    Mother Isabella Beattie,   b. 16 Jul 1744, Dalbeth, Westerkirk, Dumfriesshire Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 25 Sep 1816, Locherben, Scotland Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 72 years) 
    Marriage 1 May 1762  Westerkirk, Dumfrieshire, Scotland Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Family ID F2147  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family David Thomson,   b. 30 Sep 1763, Netherknock Westerkirk, Dumfrieshire, Scotland Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 22 Jun 1834, Scarborough,York Co.,Upper Canada Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 70 years) 
    Marriage 30 Nov 1787  Westerkirk, Dumfrieshire, Scotland Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Children 
     1. James D. Thomson,   b. 29 Apr 1789, Netherknock, Westerkirk, Dumfriesshire,Scotland Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 26 Mar 1867, Scarborough,York Co.,Ontario Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 77 years)
     2. Andrew D. Thomson,   b. 23 Nov 1790, Netherknock Westerkirk, Dumfrieshire, Scotland Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 27 Jul 1854, Scarborough,York Co.,Upper Canada Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 63 years)
     3. Isabella Thomson,   b. 8 Jan 1793, Westerkirk, Dumfrieshire, Scotland Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 15 Aug 1872, Scarborough,York Co.,Ontario Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 79 years)
     4. Richard D. Thomson,   b. 18 Oct 1794, Westerkirk, Dumfrieshire, Scotland Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 22 Feb 1878, Scarborough,York Co.,Ontario Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 83 years)
     5. Archibald D. Thomson,   b. 2 Aug 1796, Scarborough, York, Upper Canada, British Colonial America Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 27 Dec 1877, Scarborough,York Co.,Ontario Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 81 years)
     6. David Thomson,   b. 27 Feb 1798, York, Upper Canada Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 12 Oct 1852, Scarborough,York Co.,Ontario Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 54 years)
     7. Janet (Jennet) Thomson,   b. 18 May 1800, Scarborough Junction, Upper Canada Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 11 Jan 1862, Scarborough,York Co.,Ontario Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 61 years)
     8. William D. Thomson,   b. 4 Mar 1802, Scarborough Junction, Upper Canada Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 3 May 1877, Scarborough,York Co.,Ontario Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 75 years)
     9. John D. Thomson,   b. 10 Apr 1804, Scarborough Junction, Upper Canada Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 4 Dec 1888, Scarborough,York Co.,Ontario Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 84 years)
     10. Mary Thomson,   b. 10 Jun 1807, Scarborough Junction, Upper Canada Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 9 Dec 1879, Scarborough,York Co.,Ontario Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 72 years)
     11. Helen Thomson,   b. 5 Aug 1809, Scarborough Junction, Upper Canada Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 23 Jul 1844, Scarborough,York Co.,Ontario Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 34 years)
    Family ID F2144  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 28 Jan 2024 

  • Notes 
    • David Thomson, a small landed proprietor and also a tenant farmer in the County of Dumfries, Scotland, took up this land on what was then forest near where now stands St. Andrew's Presbyterian church, and developed it as the future homestead for himself and his wife, Mary. As soon as ever a house was built. David was joined by Mary, like himself a native of the "land of brown heath and shaggy wood," and there they dwelt for years until a more suitable dwelling could be erected.
      Throughout the winter David worked at his trade in York and Mary fed their four young Scottish bairns and nursed their first Canadian, Archibald, born on August 2, 1796. The first years of the pioneers were hard and often lonely. Mary was endlessly occupied with innumerable household tasks. Often she was left for weeks to do the milking, feeding and all the outside chores.
      For seven months Mrs. Thomson never saw the face of another female, and when she did see one of her own sex that woman was not of her "ain countree," but an native. The sight though was a gladsome one, and though Mrs. Thomson's visitor was unable to speak a word of English, and Mrs. Thomson was equally ignorant of the Indian tongue, they were able by the subtle instinct inherent in woman's nature to understand that the visit was pleasurable to both. Years afterwards Mrs. Thomson used to relate what pleasure this chance visit of the indigenous squaw gave her.

      One day in the spring a loud squealing rose from the rail-fenced yard around the barn. A hungry bear was about to carry off a pig. Without a moments hesitation Mary seized the axe stuck in a stump outside the door, ran at the bear, struck him and made him drop his prize.
      Mary had brought a small collection of books with them and added new volumes as the years passed. These they loaned to others. As the years passed their home came to house an incipient library, which was Mary Thomson's special care. In 1846 a substantial frame building was put up west of St. Andrew's and it served the double purpose of the library and a Sunday school until 1878.

      "Scotland, Births and Baptisms, 1564-1950," database, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:XY7S-JRP : accessed 8 November 2015), Mary Glendining, 28 Jan 1768; citing , reference 2:1633PXK; FHL microfilm 1,067,971.
      "Scotland, Marriages, 1561-1910," database, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:XTGQ-LQJ : accessed 8 November 2015), David Thomson and Mary Glendinning, 30 Nov 1787; citing Westerkirk,Dumfries,Scotland, reference ; FHL microfilm 1,067,972.
      Langholm Parish Record of birth and baptism "1768 Feb 1 Mary Daugtr Lawfull to James Glendining in Meikleholm & Isobel Beattie his Spouse. Born 28 last" Note surname spelling varies in written records, but is consistently Glendinning in gravestones, so is the preferred spelling
      Find a Grave (www.findagrave.com/memorial/13888055/mary-thomson), memorial page for Mary Glendinning Thomson (28 Jan 1768–8 Nov 1847), Find A Grave: Memorial #13888055, citing Saint Andrew's Presbyterian Church Cemetery, Scarborough, Toronto Municipality, Ontario, Canada ; Maintained by Sandi Sullivan (contributor 46834811) .


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